As a survivor of one of the most vicious Physical, Emotional and Verbal Abusive Coaches in the history of college football, namely University of Kentucky Head Coach Charlie Bradshaw, many of us mercifully now know better than the ‘old school of thought which was that a little yelling at players will “toughen them up and prepare them for real life.”
Unfortunately, though less common now, Physical, Emotional and Verbal Abusive Coaching is as despicable now as it was 50 years ago. PTSD, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, the main long-lasting consequence of Physical, Emotional and Verbal Abusive Coaching is Psychopathologically harmful and destructive as ever before no matter how assaulted.
Physical, Emotional and Verbal Abusive Coaching does not render a toughened male or female Athlete and does not render a well-respected successful Coach. Sooner or later ‘what goes around, comes around’ sometimes inescapably ‘draped in a veil’.
Verbal and emotional abuse is much more common in Athletics than other venues. Verbal and emotional abuse can lead to severe and long-lasting effects on the Athlete’s social and emotional development.
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- [“A Longitudinal and Retrospective Study of The Impact of Coaching Behaviors on the 1961-1962 University of Kentucky Football Wildcats”, Kay Collier McLaughlin, Ph.D., Micheal B. Minix Sr. M.D., Twila Minix, R.N., Jim Overman, Scott Brogdon.]
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What Does Verbal and Emotional Abuse Look Like in Athletics?
Usually, this involves a coach telling an athlete or making him or her feel that he or she is worthless, despised, inadequate, or valued only as a result of his or her athletic performance.
Such messages are not conveyed merely with the spoken word. They are conveyed by tone of voice, body language, facial expression and withdrawal of physical or emotional support.
if the athlete feels shamed, frightened, or anxious around the coach due to his or her constant shouting, name-calling or threatening, then the label “emotional abuse” is warranted.
In a 2005 UCLA study, Jaana Juvonen found that nearly 50 percent of 6th graders reported being the victim of bullying in the preceding five-day period.
Bullying does not take place in a vacuum. There has to be an environment around bullying behavior which allows it and enables it to survive.
We know that bullying is rampant among children as well as adults. We know that 45 percent of teachers admit to having bullied a student in the past.
Assuming that’s the case, it seems safe to assume that roughly 45 to 50 percent of coaches have bullied an athlete in their past.
There are roughly 1.25 million adult coaches who have bullied a child athlete in the past. And this number does not even take into account coaches who are paid for their services and who may be more likely to bully due to the pressures and expectations placed upon them.
So What? A Little Yelling Never Hurt Anyone
The old school of thought was along the lines of the nursery school rhyme “sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”
A “verbal abuse can have more impact upon victims’ self-worth than physical attacks, such as punching…stealing or the destruction of belongings.” Verbal attacks such as name-calling and humiliation can negatively affect self-worth to a dramatic degree. Rather than helping them to “toughen up,” 33 percent of verbally abused children suffer from significant levels of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This is the same disorder that haunts many war veterans and victims of violent assault. [2003 study by Dr. Stephen Joseph at University of Warwick]
A 2005 UCLA study demonstrated that there is no such thing as “harmless name-calling.” found that those 6th graders who had been victimized felt humiliated, anxious, angry and disliked school more. What’s more, the students who merely observed another student being bullied reported more anxiety and disliked school to a greater degree than those who did not witness any bullying. [Jaana Juvonen, Ph.D.]
The major lesson here is that the more a child is bullied, or observes bullying, in a particular environment, the more they dislike being in that environment. So any bullying done by coaches will virtually guarantee a victim’s hasty exit from the sport.
[Trauma endured by bullied children results in physical changes Jolynn Carney 2007 Penn State.] The study, performed by, found that levels of cortisol, the stress hormone, were elevated in the saliva both of children who had been bullied recently and in those children who were anticipating being bullied in the near future.Ironically, when cortisol levels spike, our ability to think clearly, learn or remember goes right out the window. So those coaches who rely on fear and intimidation ensure their athletes won’t recall any of what they said while they are ranting and raving.
Bullying is directly linked to trauma and anxiety and indirectly linked to depression and higher cortisol levels. [Martin Seligman] The following are the PubMed, National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) first 20 publications of 1268 publications found. Items: 1 to 20 of 1268:
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Repeated exposure to such stressful events has been linked to chronic fatigue syndrome, greater chance of injury, chronic pelvic pain, and PTSD.
Anxiety appears to be the most dangerous aspect of bullying for the victim. The anxiety stays with the victim and fuels deep internal beliefs such as “the world is a dangerous place in which to live” and “other people cannot be trusted.”
As demonstrated in work, such core beliefs lay at the heart of depression. Thus, bullying is directly linked to trauma and anxiety and indirectly linked to depression and higher cortisol levels. [Martin Seligman]
Athletic competition promotes physical and psychological health, which are Athletic activities’ greatest importance and the primary reason Children and youth are involved in Athletics. Athletes should never feel “angry, ashamed, guilty, anxious, sad nor grow to dislike Athletic competition” because anormal Coaching behavior. [The Consequences of Verbally Abusive Athletic Coaches. Medically reviewed by Scientific Advisory Board. Written by Psych Central Staff on May 17, 2016]